“Joining this community has been a powerful catalyst for my growth during this season of my life. I was already on a self-healing journey when I arrived, but something still felt missing—an unshakable feeling I couldn’t quite name. Now, after being part of this space, I realize what it was: true connection. The camaraderie, the sisterhood, the support—this community has filled a gap I didn’t even know how to describe. Here, I’ve found women who uplift rather than tear down, who inspire and encourage every step of the way. From deepening my self-love to strengthening my relationship with my partner, this community has impacted every area of my life—for the better. I truly can’t say enough about how transformative it’s been.”

Member, Joined in Jan 2025

“The Art of Servitude has given me a safe place to heal and go through self-discovery Belle and her husband created dual servers to foster a safe non-judgmental encouraging place, a refuge away from the world that passes judgment and insists that there's something wrong with my brain with my kinky ways It's a place I truly feel at home.  With laughter, tears, and a lot of cheerleading, I have learned that there is nothing wrong with me that I am uniquely beautiful, that my voice is worth being heard, that I need to not apologize for simply existing or breathing. Belle was courageous enough to create this space for us. This Valkyrie of sisterhood has been the stepping stone for me to conquer my fears myself and to lay down the baggage that I carry for years. It's given me a resting place to lick my wounds so I can fight another day. From The book club that will have you expanding your mind, to homework assignments that'll have you questioning, fitness challenges to push you beyond yourself in post limitations, meditations to feel serene and tap in to your spiritual side, good girl reminders to drink your water and tutorials to practice safe kinky fun. This place is for everyone. I have met Belle and her husband in person and I can contest that they are some of the most genuine authentic boldly unapologetic caring people I have ever met in my life. Belle puts her heart and soul to the care and fostering of all of us ladies, she never wavers in her advice to be your authentic self unapologetically. She has a beautiful, genuine soul and it's courageous enough to put herself out there for the sake of others. Her beauty goes far beyond eyelashes nails and high heels. I for one am still honored to call her my coach. My advisor, dare I say my friend, thank you for all that you have done. Not only for myself but hundreds of other women. We're simply just cut from a different cloth and if you can't stand the heat, you should probably get out of the kitchen because in this community of loving caring warriors we'll call you out on your shit. Tend to your wounds and then build you back up stronger than you've ever been. Pura Vida my friend No. Lo siento!”

Member, Joined in Feb 2025

“I initially joined Art of Servitude to gain knowledge on how to serve my man and allow him to take the lead as the head of household. However, what I didn’t anticipate would have a profound and positive impact on my life. I formed strong bonds with many of the women in the server, learned to embrace my submissive nature, and during my brief time within this community, my man proposed to me due to the significant personal growth I had experienced. We are now in the best position in our lives, filled with immense love, support, and respect. Special appreciation to the team members who go above and beyond to guide us through our journeys with unwavering support and an abundance of love.”

Member, Joined in Dec 2024

“I spend a lot of time on discord but when I am asked where I spend the most time I reply with “the art of servitude server.” This is home. These are women who uplift and support each other, explore healing naturally, and love on each other. “Traditional wives” or “trad-wives” as the internet has coined us, get such a bad rep but really we just live how we want to. We live on homesteads growing food to sustain our families, in apartments reading books. When I was single I kept looking for who I wanted to be, now I believe I am who I am able to be in my relationship because of AOS. Connecting with women into fitness and health, homesteading and small changes to mindset, reading for fun and for change and so much more. When I really am struggling mentally, this is who I turn to. When I need advice I turn here second only after my husband. I have absolutely grown and changed and learned from the amazing community that is AOS. The admin team has eliminated any and all drama and this server, in its entirety is a community of love and accountability.”

Member, Joined in Jan 2025

“I can’t believe I’m saying this but I’m glad I joined this community because I was spending so much time and energy into somebody who told me to my face I will never be a priority in their life but he wasn’t like the others in the past. This server, TGW, and 2BB gave me the strength to leave when I was scared of what was to come; until I finally let the universe take control and brought me the sweetest man I’ve ever met in my life and has brought not only so much joy but so much peace to my inner turmoil and I couldn’t be more grateful to whatever higher power not only brought him to my state but into mine and my children’s lives!”

Member, Joined in Feb 2025